This is Us by Anson Seabra

 

When I first heard This is Us by Anson Seabra, it felt like the song had been written just for me, a soundtrack to a chapter of my life that was both challenging and transformative. It was during the COVID era, a time that left so many of us grappling with uncertainty, isolation, and sometimes, the unexpected turbulence of our closest relationships. For my partner and me, this song became an anthem of sorts—a gentle reminder of our journey through rocky times and the resilience we found along the way.

As I hit play on This is Us, I found myself feeling both understood and comforted. Anson Seabra’s lyrics beautifully capture the bittersweet essence of love—the kind that’s imperfect yet unconditional, shaky yet steadfast. The softness of Seabra’s voice, paired with the raw honesty of his lyrics, seemed to speak directly to where we were in our relationship.

Navigating the Storm Together

Back then, we were only three or four months into our relationship, and we were still learning each other's rhythms, quirks, and ways of communicating. The early days were full of passion and excitement, but like any relationship, they also came with misunderstandings and insecurities. Add to that the stress of a global pandemic, with all its uncertainties, and we found ourselves on a bit of a rocky road.

When I listened to This is Us, I felt a sense of relief. The song is a gentle reminder that love isn't always about the easy days. It’s also about the struggles, the challenges, and the difficult conversations. Seabra’s lyrics seemed to hold up a mirror, showing us that every relationship has its ups and downs, and it’s through these trials that real love is forged.

One line that struck me deeply was: "We’ve been through it all, and we’re still here, side by side." The song doesn’t shy away from acknowledging the pain and complexity that can come with love, especially when two people are learning to navigate each other’s hearts in such uncertain times. It echoed the doubts and questions we both had: Could we make it through this? Would we grow closer or drift apart? This is Us became a reminder to keep going, even when the road got tough.

Embracing Imperfection

Love songs often focus on the fairy-tale aspects of relationships, but This is Us stands out because it’s so real. Seabra doesn’t promise perfection; instead, he celebrates the imperfections that make love genuine. The line "This is messy, this is love" was particularly resonant because, for us, love wasn’t a polished, picture-perfect ideal. It was messy, it was raw, and sometimes it was painful. And yet, there was a beauty in that imperfection—a beauty in two people choosing to stay and grow together, despite the challenges.

In many ways, the song felt like an affirmation that it was okay for us to be a work in progress. Relationships aren’t about getting everything right all the time; they’re about the journey, the learning, and the choice to keep going together. In those moments when we felt overwhelmed by our own insecurities or by the weight of the world around us, This is Us reminded us that it was okay to stumble and struggle as long as we were committed to working things out together.

Four Years Later: Looking Back on the Journey

Now, as we celebrate our fourth year together, This is Us has taken on an even deeper meaning. When I listen to it today, it’s like looking back on a chapter that we managed to overcome—a chapter that helped us grow into a stronger, more resilient partnership. Our love has evolved, shaped by those early days of doubt and uncertainty. We’re no longer the same people we were back then; we’re better for having walked through that storm together.

Four years ago, we were just two people trying to figure out if we had what it took to weather the challenges that life threw our way. Today, we’ve created a foundation built on trust, empathy, and shared experiences. This journey hasn’t been easy, but it has been worth it. And every time I hear This is Us, I’m reminded of how far we’ve come and how much we’ve grown.

Love as a Choice

One of the most powerful things I’ve learned over the past few years is that love is a choice. It’s a choice to stay, to communicate, to be vulnerable, and to show up for each other day after day. Listening to This is Us reminds me of the moments when we could have chosen to give up but instead chose to dig deeper and work through our differences. Seabra’s lyrics beautifully capture this commitment—acknowledging that love isn’t always easy, but it’s a choice worth making.

Now, as I reflect on the past four years, I feel incredibly grateful. We’ve built something real, something that can withstand the storms, because we’ve put in the effort to make it work. And while the future is always unknown, I know that with the lessons we’ve learned, we’re ready to face whatever comes our way.

Final Thoughts: This is Us 

This is Us will always hold a special place in my heart, not only as a song but as a marker of a time in my life when love was tested and ultimately proven resilient. It’s a reminder that true love isn’t just about the good times; it’s about standing together through the trials and finding strength in each other when things feel uncertain. Seabra’s song speaks to the imperfect beauty of real relationships and the courage it takes to love wholeheartedly, despite the challenges.

For anyone who’s been through rocky times in a relationship, This is Us is a balm for the soul. It’s a reminder that even when things are messy, love can endure if you’re willing to put in the work. So, here’s to the love that withstands the test of time, to the journey of growth, and to the power of music that helps us make sense of it all.

I can take the fall, the pain, the pleasure

And you can take it all, for worse, or better

But oh, what if we're wrong?

What if we're not all that we thought?

Then we won't make it along

But hey, I guess that's love..